I don't know about anywhere else, but here in Columbus, it's more difficult for black men, if anything (Everything I say, is referring to Columbus. Not LA, not New York, or wherever you're from). All of the good looking black girls in the college university world? They don't date black men. As noted in a story awhile back when Cheeseman noted that her black friend didn't fuck black men. Every good looking black woman that I've seen on campus was with a white guy.
And looking at the white girls, stop and think for a moment. Their parents, although they might not openly say it, don't want their daughter with a black man. Some of the white women I've dated will tell me about some of the words the men in their family have to say. And they aren't exactly favorable to black men. What's ironic, is the same men who despise white women dating black men, will openly date a black woman.
And a lot of the guys here in Ohio, although they won't openly say it, don't like black men. I know this because of all the comments I hear when I'm seen with a white girl, and a lot of the comments some of my friends make about black people. If you're a black guy, let people know that the word "nigger" doesn't affect you, and see how openly they use it and listen to their remarks. They'll start to show their true colors.
What this comes down to, is societal pressure. Women oftentimes give into it really easily and would rather avoid the drama, by sticking with a white guy. Remember, many, not all, women give into pressure from their peers easily, whether it's direct or indirect pressure.
So, how did I sleep with that black girl from the Cheeseman comment? It's simple. No one she knew was around when I fucked her. As a result, no pressure from her peers, and no comments from her friends about how she slept with a black guy. MANY of the white women I sleep with do so when their friends aren't around. I'm like their dirty secret.
Then why is it that you see black men with white women? One of three things USUALLY happen: she's tired of white guys and wants a change, her friends and family aren't around to influence her (i.e. she graduated college and moved to a different city), she's from somewhere there aren't any black people at all and she finds black men to be irresistibly exotic (i.e. country girls or women from the European Continent).
Every white girl that dated me, happened to fall into one of the above three categories. And after they've finally convinced themselves to date a black man, women tend to totally switch to black men exclusively. Why? Never thought you'd ask: